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How Do You Make Me Feel?

In this world of interactions and relationships, we often assess the value a person holds in our lives by the emotions that we experience when we are in their presence or when we think about them. There are a large number of elements at play here which determine which aspect of our life we would share with this person, how much we can trust them and even, how much effort we would like to put into this relationship.   I recently heard something that there is a difference between how we feel about a person and how a person makes us feel. Now, if you're like me, you're probably scratching your head thinking how they are different. I had to actually sit back and reflect at what each of the statements meant and this led me to a very interesting finding. Let me explain- How we feel about a person is a more objective evaluation of the way a person acts and behaves towards us and the people around them, It refers to the qualities we attribute to that person such as they are smart, th...